Harry Styles’ gay sex comments spark huge debate about queerbaiting and outing
Harry Styles. (Getty)
Harry Styles has once again been accused of “queerbaiting” after commenting on gay sex and his own sexuality.
Styles, 28, has long been faced accusations of queerbaiting – adopting a queer image for profit without being part of the LGBTQ+ community – over his androgynous dress sense and comments about his own identity.
He shrugged off the claim in a new interview with Rolling Stone magazine, saying: “Sometimes people say: ‘You’ve only publicly been with women,’ and I don’t think I’ve publicly been with anyone.”
“I’ve never talked about my life away from work publicly and found that it’s benefited me positively.”
Styles also discussed gay sex scenes in film, ahead of his own in My Policeman, saying that so much of it “is two guys going at it, and it kinds of removes the tenderness from it” – remarks that have spawned ridicule and renewed the queerbaiting debate.
Twitter users were divided by Harry Styles’ refusal to label his sexual orientation.
sorry I am really over the queer baiting product management of harry styles. it’s part of the whole brand of harry styles I do not like it https://t.co/mHzZgShH2D
— ariANAL grande (THEY/THEM) (@emowag420) August 22, 2022
“how does he make it all look so easy”
well when you market yourself to a specific audience (the LGBTQ community) and try to sympathise with their struggles by claiming you’re ‘bi’ you begin to sell better.
i’m tired of his queer-baiting and HETEROSEXUAL self.
— soppy (@soppeyy) August 22, 2022
Tyler The Creator did queer baiting better, yet Harry Styles is the most successful queer-baiter. What are we supposed to take from this?
— Flowige (@xFlowigex) August 22, 2022
harry styles fans going all oh i’ll support him even if he doesn’t come out like that’s just him queer baiting you with big words please 😭 the recent interview is a very good example of white man trying to be different because they have no other interesting quality
— s (@yoongienthusias) August 23, 2022
Twitter users also slammed the actor’s comment that My Policeman will show a more “tender” side to gay sex rather than just “two guys going at it”.
his stans calling grindr homophobic 😭 pic.twitter.com/9f7e7hUeIZ
— i dont have a name (@s4lemfrmrm) August 22, 2022
Harry styles when Gay sex isn’t just saying “slay bestie🤪” while wearing a granny dress https://t.co/9dm5Fuz1g7 pic.twitter.com/9m3wWvKr4L
— Lammely, Shadow High. (@MTMLammily) August 22, 2022
harry styles is perfectly fine with leading his fanbase into believing he could be gay but is disgusted by the implication of having sex with another man despite having several songs about having sex with women https://t.co/tGwpW0xHwg
— laur (@shushukis) August 22, 2022
Other users expressed frustration at the debate, calling on people to speak about other issues afflicting the queer community instead, and said that pressuring someone to come out is not OK.
honestly it’s very weird to me how people think harry styles wearing like a skirt every now and then is queer baiting like that word doesn’t mean what you think it means
— white trash feminist ❤️🔥 (@comradeswift) August 22, 2022
… you ever heard of closeting? You don’t get to demand when and how a person comes out. You don’t get to decide who is valid in the community and who isn’t. The entire plot of my policeman is based on closeting. Tom lies, he avoids answering questions, and he marries a woman…++
— Liv (@otbisbrave) August 22, 2022
Idk. It’s like people’s obsession with Shawn Mendes’ sexuality too. Just let people live. Even celebrities deserve some kind of privacy. Idk the whole conversation just really bugs me.
— Gracie ᗢ (@graciemaynard23) August 23, 2022
There’s people being killed & jailed for being gay etc etc I can’t bring myself to care over Harry styles ‘queer baiting’ pic.twitter.com/C1hpKEiSnT
— jono 🦋 (@jonomxr) August 22, 2022
Harry Styles has been asked on numerous occasions about his sexuality.
Such questions, he told Better Homes & Gardens in April, are “outdated”. His sexuality is one of the few things he says he feels he has control over as a celebrity in the public eye.
“I’ve been really open with it with my friends, but that’s my personal experience; it’s mine,” he said.
“The whole point of where we should be heading, which is toward accepting everybody and being more open, is that it doesn’t matter, and it’s about not having to label everything, not having to clarify what boxes you’re checking.”
Styles is not the first – and certainly won’t be the last – celebrity to be accused of queerbaiting.
Nick Jonas in 2016 promoted his album Last Year Was Complicated by swinging by gay bars and offering vague answers to questions about whether he has slept with men.