Ben Affleck Spends Time With BFF Matt Damon Amid Jennifer Lopez Split

And while the two have maintained a low profile since the news broke, Jennifer did recently make her return to social media, resharing a fan’s throwback photo to her Instagram Stories Aug. 23, in which she could be seen wearing a fuzzy pink robe and snapping a selfie in front of a Christmas tree.

As for Ben, on the day that J.Lo was filing for the divorce, the Argo star was flying back to Los Angeles from New Haven, Conn., where he and ex-wife Jennifer Garner moved their eldest daughter Violet, 18, into Yale University for her freshman year. The couple are also parents to Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12.

In February, Ben hinted that he and Jennifer were on different pages about their marriage, discussing how they fundamentally disagreed when it came to showing off their romance in the public eye, especially after rekindling their early aughts romance.

“Getting back together, I said, ‘Listen, one of the things I don’t want is a relationship on social media,'” he explained in Jen’s The Greatest Love Story Never Told documentary. “And then I sort of realized it’s not a fair thing to ask. It’s sort of like you’re gonna marry a boat captain and you go, ‘Well, I don’t like the water.’ We’re just two people with kind of different approaches trying to learn to compromise.”

For more of Ben and Jen’s romantic journey, keep reading.