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5 simple but mind-blowing ways to get your partner off this Valentine’s Day

The Arcwave Ion is the world’s first Pleasure Air™ stroker. (Arcwave)

Want to make your Valentine’s Day the hottest yet? PinkNews and premium pleasure brand Arcwave have teamed up to give some simple but mind-blowing tips on switching things up.

Of course, you’d like to please your lover 365 days a year. But there’s no harm in renewing your commitment to a partner’s pleasure on Valentine’s Day. Looking to make this one toe-curlingly good? Well, when it comes to sexy ideas for Valentine’s Day 2021, you’ve got a few solid options. Let’s review them, shall we?

1. Pump things up with the Arcwave Ion.

When it comes to sex toys, the Arcwave Ion is not your average penis masturbator. Typically, the warmth of a sleeve and the sensation of penetration are what help penis-owners achieve orgasm. But with Ion, beyond the joys of thrusting, penis-owners can orgasm thanks to Arcwave’s Pleasure Air™ technology. The “arced waves” of air — get it? — brush along the frenulum (the highly erogenous ‘string’ connecting the shaft to the head), thereby providing an entirely new type of orgasm. A hot Valentine’s Day pro-tip: Have your penis-owning partner pleasure themselves with Ion while you ride their face. You’re welcome.

A topless man holding the Arcwave Ion, a sleek, black, phallic masturbator
The Arcwave Ion stimulates sensitive Pacinian pleasure receptors in the frenulum. (Archive)

2. Put on a show for your partner.

Even if you’re separated from your partner for Valentine’s Day 2021, you can indulge in a striptease. Wear clothes that make you feel confident, whether that’s luxe lingerie or a suit that makes you feel like Daddy. Then, get to work. Even if you feel silly, your partner will ultimately chuckle, you’ll be naked, and the rest is history.

3. Take fingering to the next level.

Fingering can be a delight, but you can up your game further by incorporating oral sex. If your Valentine has a penis, give them a blowjob or use the Arcwave Ion on them while fingering them anally — with their enthusiastic consent, of course. If your Valentine’s Day lover has a vagina, lick or suck their clit while fingering them vaginally or anally. You could even double-penetrate your partner while pleasuring them orally. Again, consent is key.

4. Get freaky over FaceTime.

Your Valentine’s Day spectacle can include a front-row ticket to a juicy masturbation session. Come prepared with charged sex toys, Instagram-worthy lighting, and maybe a bit of lube for a visually engaging sheen.

5. Tease them until they can’t take it anymore.

For example (and with your lover’s consent): put the Arcwave Ion on your partner, take it off of them, and put it back on — over and over, leisurely, for a half-hour. Similarly, you can ride or penetrate your partner for an interval of time, stop, and then start again. Playfully challenge each other to see how long you can last.

With these tips and tools in mind, you’ll go into your Valentine’s Day festivities with more than a few tricks up your sleeve — pun intended.

Visit Arcwave now to discover the Ion.